Oh I'm so sorry that was not my intention at all, I was drawing a connection between being adults, and being able to allow a regulation or two; or being able to handle missing an auction during a probationary period. My intent was never to infer that everyone is on their own, and I sincerely apologize if I came off that way! ^.^
I firmly believe everyone in this thread wants the same thing: a safe place to conduct business and/or socialize; and the options seem to be zero regulation (where I feel there are more chances for the unlucky to be preyed on) or a merit based system, which I feel provides most people with a safety net?
I dunno I just think that since this applies to auctions only, and auctions seem to be contentious, some regulation to protect individuals and the community at large feels sensible.
Again I'm terribly sorry if you thought I was being heartless! ♡.♡