Let me maybe rewrite my last post. After I put it up I felt like it may have been too much, inappropriate, etc. I also misinterpreted Bun's reply and edited it. So here's the more sober morning after version.
Around here no one talks about things like this. I have never seen a BD sticker anywhere, never even heard of BD until it was used in a joke on a podcast. As inappropriate as most of my friends can be, bedroom things are usually just not talked about. The women I've been with in the past that may have been receptive (one had a plain toy covered in dust, one just wanted a regular hook-up, both were into backdoor stuff) were not locals. If there's someone nearby that's into fantasy genitalia, I'll probably never know.
That kinda sucks, because I wouldn't mind trying toying with someone else. But I always have myself! These forums are the only place I can talk about these things. So I'll just have to blacklight charge my Echo and make light saber noises in the privacy of my own home.
I had a thought, though... I've gotten the little BD sticker with each purchase. One is on my mini fridge. The other two, and subsequent stickers in the future, I may start tagging random places with.