Tentacle_Kitty
Member
I find that when I’m stressed out I actually jack off less than I do when I’m relaxed. Why? I’m not sure.
How often do you toy?
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Tentacle_Kitty
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I’m sorta the opposite. For the most part it used to be daily but recently it’s been weekly
BorisLover
Well-known member
No I get this. I definitely toy a lot more when Im happy and content.
Stress just clouds the mind and makes it harder to orgasm, plus the orgasms are weaker too because its usually a rushed affair.
IggyZen
Nerdy Rainbow Shenanigans
Geez, if I'm being seriously honest? The last time I did anything fun in the bedroom it was at least late February to early March when I still had my job. I haven't gotten a call from my workplace saying that I'm officially let go, neither have I been texted to give back the keys to the place or hand over my t-shirts. So, right now I think it's all the daily drama going on with the world that is seriously putting a damper on my sex drive. It's virtually nothing right now. I may occasionally get some little tiny spark, but it's rare. Really rare. Even my significant other is upset. I hate this. I want to be happy again.
Snow Pony
Well-known member
I deal with chronic pain and illness, as well as a partner who is rarely interested. Due to the pain problems, I find toying on my own quite difficult, so need a hand to be able to do more than use a vibrator. If I wasn't so dependant on him, found it easier to toy on my own, I'd probably be going for it daily. I use my vibe on a daily basis, but a full-on toying session? Three times a year if I'm lucky.
Both stress and feeling tend to increase my libido. But very high levels of stress tend to kill it.
Idk, it's kind complicated because I can have sessions even though I'm not turned on to try and achieve different objectives. It really depends also on what constitutes a session : for example: is giving oral to a toy while watching a movie a session? If yes, is it still one if one's not very focused on the toy and very much on the movie?
For a simpler answer: mostly on a daily basis(with "dry spells" that can last anywhere from a few days to a month, but very rarely so long)
Would you be alright with me PMing you a website with that type of furniture? It probably won't be exactly what you're looking for, but who knows ^^" Feel free to ignore that
Idk, it's kind complicated because I can have sessions even though I'm not turned on to try and achieve different objectives. It really depends also on what constitutes a session : for example: is giving oral to a toy while watching a movie a session? If yes, is it still one if one's not very focused on the toy and very much on the movie?
For a simpler answer: mostly on a daily basis(with "dry spells" that can last anywhere from a few days to a month, but very rarely so long)
I've heard of furniture to help aid mobility for solo or partnered sex but they tend to get pretty expensive.
Would you be alright with me PMing you a website with that type of furniture? It probably won't be exactly what you're looking for, but who knows ^^" Feel free to ignore that
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Snow Pony
Well-known member
Nah, but I do thank you for the offer.
Aura-Sama
Leaving dildos in the open since 2016
Definitely not enough...
If I have the privacy, I‘m not motivated.
If I‘m motivated, I either lack privacy or time cause it’s late and I gotta get up early.
Having a partner would probably solve the motivation part.
Most of the time I‘m also too lazy to do anything but sitting on a dildo, thrusting it tends to get my arms tired and the only toy long and stable enough to ride is my M Chance which I can’t just whip out and stuff in.
Thought about getting a Fuck-Machine at some point though.
Well, enough rant, though I was just stating facts...
If I have the privacy, I‘m not motivated.
If I‘m motivated, I either lack privacy or time cause it’s late and I gotta get up early.
Having a partner would probably solve the motivation part.
Most of the time I‘m also too lazy to do anything but sitting on a dildo, thrusting it tends to get my arms tired and the only toy long and stable enough to ride is my M Chance which I can’t just whip out and stuff in.
Thought about getting a Fuck-Machine at some point though.
Well, enough rant, though I was just stating facts...
ChaiSaberdeer
damn cat
Not as often as I'd like. I'd say probably once or twice a month.
The truth is I prioritize sex with my partner over toying and it is rare for our sessions to involve lots of toys and such.
The truth is I prioritize sex with my partner over toying and it is rare for our sessions to involve lots of toys and such.
Tentacle_Kitty
Member
I completely understand that.
LouieDrago
Tentacle perv
I try to anytime I can, I also have found jerking off is easier cleanup but also I started investing in Japanese masturbators which have a tentacle section that I love with a passion
Xochiquetzal
Member
If you are interested in this topic, there is a book by Dr. Emily Nagoski called Come as you are and there is a big part of it that explains how stressed and libido can be connected.
It is complex but very easy to understand in that book
. And it also has a lot of another great info.
It is complex but very easy to understand in that book
. And it also has a lot of another great info.
MissFinalVerse
Member
I used to try to get a session with my Mistress every week but then she moved it to every other week. I think she is worried about my health which is fair because I am a very sick individual (I won't get too much into it but I almost died in the emergency room the other day and I'm still not fully diagnosed, yay)
Health aside I am aiming to stretch every day like my anal queen idol Argendana. I want to be able to take what she can and I can already get to 5 inch diameter with plugs but no more than that. It's like my ass won't stretch anymore. Also I found that after a rough session one time the plug goes in and is swallowed but it's only the skin that wrapped around, I have to jiggle a little bit and it pops in one side and then the next.
As for long toys, sometimes my body just won't take a certain length and it just feels tight. Inflammation maybe?
Oh well I've ranted long enough. Have fun and safe toying!
Health aside I am aiming to stretch every day like my anal queen idol Argendana. I want to be able to take what she can and I can already get to 5 inch diameter with plugs but no more than that. It's like my ass won't stretch anymore. Also I found that after a rough session one time the plug goes in and is swallowed but it's only the skin that wrapped around, I have to jiggle a little bit and it pops in one side and then the next.
As for long toys, sometimes my body just won't take a certain length and it just feels tight. Inflammation maybe?
Oh well I've ranted long enough. Have fun and safe toying!
