A question for the ladies of the site,especially those who enjoy larger toys!

[Fafnir]

Hey all, this is a question I have had in my mind for some time and here seems ideal to ask it...
I have heard(and am the wrong biology to find out) that stretching the vagina pre childbirth can stop women tearing(something I hate the thought of) during childbirth. Have any of you found that the elasticity of "yourselves" due to stretching and toy play has helped smooth things along with birth?
Secondly on a similar topic, I have heard a rumour that some women orgasm during the act of childbirth, has anyone heard or experienced that?
Thank you all in advance
Fafnir.

 

[NyxErosophos]

As I am child-free, I cannot attest to the first concept though it sounds mildly feasible. I still would consult a medical professional to confirm any validity to that premise.

For the second, however, I am quite certain that's not a thing. The physical strain and exertion of labor & childbirth would - to my mind - be the primary focal experience mentally and physically; I doubt many people would find erotic pleasure in the experience. And it would be quite strange to my mind to experience such, in a quite non-erotic event of this nature.

 

[Skunkie]

My spouse has had 4 kids and can attest that the tearing is a thing, and that it is just one of a host of changes that occur, and in the case of my spouse, it was pretty low on the list of concerns. Also, the speed at which the head (and shoulders) pops out can kinda be abrupt so that adds to the probability of a tear, despite best efforts. Massaging the area well before and up to childbirth is actually beneficial and can contribute to a tear-free delivery. Ofc, worst case scenario for a tear is straight back to the anus, which was never the case for my spouse thankfully.

The whole orgasm during childbirth, well, I'm not gonna say it couldn't happen, but like, I don't think there could've been a thought further from the mind of my laboring spouse (again: our experience, your results may vary).

Also, interestingly enough the experiences have made it so my spouse is uninterested in stretching, or knotty toys; it is too reminiscent of the birthing sensations and therefore a turn-off.

 

[femininestatic]

The whole stretching thing seems to have made it into the vanilla world too. There is the Aniball that is actually a quite popular tool women use to stretch their vaginal canal. It's an inflatable ball, if only all these ladies jus skipp this boring Aniball and just commit to an big sillicone dildo, would be good for the bedroom fun as well